It can be life-long or have started after a period of time of being able to experience orgasm. Some women can experience orgasm during masturbation, but not during partnered sex; some women can get highly aroused, but never go beyond that. This can leave women feeling deprived of something special, isolated and abnormal and can cause tension in relationships.
Delayed ejaculation DE is a common medical condition. In some cases, ejaculation cannot be achieved at all. Most men experience DE from time to time, but for others it may be a lifelong problem.
Dr Sherry Ross says there has long been a gender bias in the way women's sexual dysfunction has been treated compared to men's. One of the most glaring is female orgasms. Women are rarely taught about the intricate details of their anatomy and often work these things out through their own experimenting.
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If you're not trying to get pregnant, then reaching climax is typically the end goal of sex for both parties. Which makes sense! But even this mindset, egalitarian as it may seem, comes with its own set of problems.
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I've recently started seeing someone on a casual basis and I'm puzzled by something I have never before encountered - he doesn't ejaculate or orgasm! He assures me this is "normal" for him and that he likes our time together. I am very open-minded but it makes me feel strange and I worry he may have some underlying issue that he should get checked out.
Naturally, guys are typically more competitive and, in my experience, you can almost smell their testosterone flowing when their egos are challenged in the bedroom. More often than not, when I reveal the truth I become a game to them—a game they feel that they MUST win, despite the fact that I am essentially player number one and own the controller. Even when posting my ideas for this article on my social media, I received this message:.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and some even find it impossible.